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I was caught off guard at work on Monday by a new friend. 

She asked me how I would describe myself. I’m not sure why I felt caught off guard by this, especially since I feel like I know myself pretty well these days.

I think I stumbled out some answer that started with fleece. Included sweatpants. And ended with the Ocean, of course. In hind sight, I realized that made me sound very lazy maybe? So I quickly added that I spent some time in Yosemite during my gap in jobs.

I think I need to work on this answer for the future. I have the answer prepared for the following respective parties:

  • employers
  • landlords
  • doctors
  • attractive boys
  • parent’s friends

But, I have never “prepared” the answer for someone that I was potentially courting as a future friend.

I’m not sure what I’d really add to the fleece / sweatpants / ocean combo. Maybe that I enjoy cooking, a day at the beach, beverages that come with straws, and covering myself with blankets? I’m not sure.

I think she likes me just fine anyway. Minimal risk. She responded really well to the sweatpants line.

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